Etiquette

Book in advance, confirm details, and know the cancellation policy.

Arrive 30–45 minutes early. Full stop.

Check in at the pro shop, pay, ask about conditions, find the starter.

Start with wedge, build up, finish back with a mid-iron. Leave 10 min for putting green.

Roll 5–10 putts on the practice green, get a feel for speed, then head to tee.

Shake hands, say your name, mention you're new. That's all you need.

Lowest score goes first. In casual play, just go when you're ready.

Stand still, stand to the side, stand safely away. Simple.

Shut up and stand still the second someone is about to swing.

Phone silent. Music only if everyone agrees and it's quiet.

Follow posted rules, park away from the green, grab extra clubs on CPO days.

Carts on path only. Grab 2–3 clubs when you park and walk to your ball.

Path to ball = 90 degrees straight across. Ball to path = 90 degrees straight back.

Park cart on the path, on the exit side of the green. Saves time.

4 hours for 18 holes. Be ready when it's your turn. Keep moving.

Ready golf = hit when you're ready and it's safe. Don't wait for formality.

If they've waited twice, wave them through. It takes 5 minutes and everyone's happier.

Wait for a pause, ask politely, accept the answer gracefully.

Hit a provisional, search 3 minutes, play accordingly. Don't skip the provisional.

Any lie is unplayable if you say so (except in a penalty area). +1 stroke, 3 drop options.

Fill every divot. Seed mix or replace the turf chunk.

Find your ball mark, fix it, fix one more nearby. Always.

Rake your footprints after every bunker shot. Leave the rake outside.

Never walk between another player's ball and the hole.

Ask if they want it in or tended. Tend it properly if asked.

Marker behind ball, lift. Replace exactly on the spot.

Once you hit double par (or your agreed max), pick it up and move on.

Breathe. Walk. Reset. Never throw a club.

Be friendly, compliment good shots, don't give swing tips.

Polo + golf pants/shorts + soft spikes. Check the website first.

Hat off inside the clubhouse. Simple.

Bring a few $1–5 bills. Tip bag drop and caddie if applicable.

Go inside after the round, thank your partners, buy a drink if appropriate.

Count every stroke. If unsure, take the higher number.

If the marshal says speed up — do it. No argument.

Brief kids and guests on basics before they play. Choose an appropriate venue.

Lightning horn = stop immediately, seek shelter, wait for all-clear.

Shake hands at 18. Thank everyone. Move off the green quickly.

No jeans. No metal spikes. No sleeveless. When in doubt, check the website.